Book cover of Tough Journey, Happy Ending by Amy Lois: two bananas with googly eyes embracing on a pink background
A relationship book, minus the fairy tale

Tough Journey,
Happy Ending

A guide to finding a partner as cool as you — by Amy Lois

The book

Dating can be challenging, especially if you don't have the skills to navigate it. You can't control your luck, background, or circumstances, but, with this book, you can learn the practical skills you need to find a fitting partner for you.

Ultimately, it's not just about meeting "the one" — it's about becoming a healthy, whole person who can recognize and choose another healthy person to build something real with.

Straight from the book
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You have very little control over the people who come into your life; you have 100% control over who can stay.

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Healthy people want to be wanted by their partner. They do not want to be needed by their partner.

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To find someone who truly loves you, you need to be willing to show the world who you are.

The author
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Amy Lois

Amy Lois had a bad long-term relationship, a bad rebound, and a great relationship. She also went on 85 first dates in Berlin. During COVID-19, she started giving relationship advice in a popular online community for international women. She noticed people kept struggling with the same relationship issues, so she decided to write a book to help everyone looking for love.

What readers say

A pleasure to read! An on point analysis of unhealthy vs healthy relationship patterns, as well as smart and well thought-through advices on how to initiate change. A must read I'd recommend to anyone: single, in a relation/situationship/whatevership, it's valuable input anyway.

— Mathilda

This book opened my eyes to a rather obvious truth I apparently can't hear often enough to understand: unavailable men are not a particularly worthwhile hobby. I have a fabulous life to live — I should probably get back to fucking enjoying it.

— Susie

It's both really lively and entertaining to read — you find yourself picturing Amy — but it also makes you reflect! Since I'm someone who tends to go back and forth forever, Amy's straightforward yet understanding way of approaching the topic of finding a partner was truly an eye-opening experience!

— Dagmar

Build your life first.
Then invite someone into it.

Tough Journey, Happy Ending is out now.

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